Talking about psychology in the original building
It is said that the love of parents is the greatest love, but there is also a kind of love of relatives in this world. Whenever I think of her, many childhood memories will always emerge in my mind, and the softest place in my heart will feel warm. She is my grandmother.
The film love changes that I want to share with you today is a touching film about my grandmother.
This movie was released in South Korea in 2002, and it won the box office championship for four weeks in a row, becoming the highest-grossing movie of that year, and the netizens on Douban also scored 9.1.
Some netizens commented that watching the film reminds me of my grandmother, and every shot grandma appears is a tear …
Xiangyu, the hero of the story, is a little boy who grew up in a single-parent family.
Mother sent Xiangyu to her grandmother’s house in the country for a few days to facilitate her work.
On the way to grandma’s house, bumpy mountain roads, crowded buses and rustic country uncles and aunts chattered about chickens and ducks …
All these make Xiangyu, a city child, feel deeply disgusted and disgusted.
Xiangyu’s grandmother’s village is a very poor place. There are no entertainment facilities and places in the village, only a small grocery store, and grandma’s home is even more dilapidated.
Grandma is an old man in her seventies, her face is covered with wrinkles, and her back has been bent by perennial farm work.
Besides, grandma can’t read and is mute.
After her mother took Xiangyu to her grandmother’s house, she turned around and left.
Looking at this old and dumb grandmother, Xiangyu is full of disdain and disgust.
Grandma wanted to touch his head, and he was too dirty to avoid it. Grandma wanted to take his hand home, but he also forced it off and even made a gesture to hit someone.
There is no way, grandma hunched in front, followed by Xiangyu did not forget to scold: idiot.
Grandma just looked back at Xiangyu from time to time, for fear that he didn’t keep up.
This is the scene of the first meeting between grandparents and grandchildren, without a trace of warmth and touching.
In the evening, when having dinner, grandma brought Xiangyu food. He threw all the food into grandma’s bowl and only ate the canned food he brought.
Grandma’s eyesight is dim, and it is very laborious to thread the needle. She wants Xiangyu to help.
Xiangyu first pretended not to hear the video game, and after repeated requests from her grandmother, she got up impatiently to help.
Xiangyu’s game machine was out of power, so he pestered his grandmother to give him money to buy batteries, but her grandmother had no money, so she could only keep apologizing to Xiangyu.
He searched every corner of grandma’s house, but he didn’t find any money. He was so angry that he kicked the clay pot that grandma cherished and threw away her only pair of shoes.
Grandma without shoes can only walk barefoot on the rocky mountain road.
Xiangyu still refused to let it go. He took advantage of his grandmother’s sleep and pulled out her hairpins, hoping to exchange them for money to buy batteries.
When my grandmother woke up, she found that the hair clasp was missing, so she had to fix her hair with a spoon.
Xiangyu wanted to eat KFC, but grandma didn’t understand. He showed it to her like a rooster.
Grandma looked at Xiangyu’s cock and thought he wanted to eat chicken, so she braved the heavy rain and walked a long, long mountain road and bought a chicken.
After the stew, grandma brought the chicken to Xiangyu, but Xiangyu looked disgusted and cried and overturned his job, cursing grandma: you are a liar who knows nothing.
Grandma doesn’t know what to do, so she can only silently turn around and pick up the bowl that Xiangyu threw away, pick up the rice grains on the ground and stuff them into her mouth, for fear of wasting them.
Looking at Xiangyu who fell asleep in anger, grandma was full of guilt.
In the town, Xiangyu saw his little friend and was afraid that his grandmother would embarrass him, so he left his grandmother alone and went home by car with his partner.
Finally, in order to save money, grandma had to walk home alone.
Xiangyu’s personality is so capricious and stubborn, but grandma always only cares and tolerates him.
Grandma learns to ponder over his toys and wants to know more about her grandson’s world.
Xiangyu was afraid of going to the toilet alone at night, so grandma squatted barefoot and watched.
Grandma took Xiangyu to the town to sell melons, because grandma couldn’t speak. At the end of the day, none of them were sold.
But even if there is no income at the end of the day, grandma still takes Xiangyu to buy new shoes.
Take him to eat a meal in Zhajiang Noodles, and grandma only ordered one for Xiangyu, watching by herself.
In the face of her grandson’s unreasonable demands, my grandmother waved "I’m sorry" on her chest again and again and apologized to her grandson.
Grandma’s clumsy love made Xiangyu more headstrong at first, but as time went by, grandma’s love penetrated into Xiangyu’s heart, and he gradually changed, no longer just thinking about himself.
When grandma was not at home, it rained heavily. Xiangyu hurried to collect clothes. After collecting his own clothes, he saw that grandma’s clothes were still outside, and went out to collect grandma’s clothes.
Grandma got sick because she got wet in the rain. He would cover her with a quilt and put a towel on her forehead, hoping that she would get better soon.
On grandma’s sick day, he never cooked, and he prepared breakfast for grandma.
When grandma goes home, Xiangyu will take the initiative to take the bag in her hand.
Grandma bought him chocolate cakes, and he secretly stuffed one into her bag.
I accidentally fell down the hillside and was injured. When I saw my grandmother, Xiangyu jumped into her arms and cried bitterly.
Xiangyu’s dislike and complaint about his grandmother at first gradually turned into love and dependence. He is increasingly inseparable from his grandmother, and some even don’t want to return to the city.
Just when the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren improved, Xiangyu received a letter from his mother to take him home.
Xiangyu is full of sadness for his grandmother, and he doesn’t trust her to live alone. He teaches her to read and write letters.
He said to grandma:
Because you can’t talk on the phone, you should write to me.
Grandma, if you are sick, send me a blank piece of writing paper. I know it’s you, and I’ll be right back.
Speaking of which, Xiangyu has been sobbing, and grandma has secretly wiped her tears.
The day of parting still came, and Xiangyu helped grandma put on her needle and thread, which was enough for grandma to use for a while.
On the bus leaving, Xiangyu learned the gesture of grandma’s apology and gestured "I’m sorry" on his chest over and over again.
With the bus gone, grandma walked back to her hut alone.
After watching the movie, I remembered what Stefanie sang in the song "Good Youth":
Remember that someone is waiting at the end of the world, no matter how far away it is, don’t come back.
Affection is often the most easily overlooked emotion.
In many people’s childhood, there are always people who regard us as treasures in their hands and are willing to leave us the most precious things she has.
But because we are loved, we often have nothing to hide, dislike and blame them, and even never take the time to get to know them. It is not until we grow up that we find that the love we once ignored is so precious.
In the movie, my grandmother is old, and she is very indifferent to life and death. Even the old woman who runs a convenience store said flatly to her grandmother:
Come and see me again, before we die.
Xiangyu, on the other hand, didn’t understand grandma’s love until he left. Before he could figure out how to respond to grandma, he was about to leave her side.
In the future, how many opportunities will he have to repay his grandmother?
Don’t wait until it’s too late to try to make up for it.
Take advantage of this holiday, spend more time with them and listen to their stories when you have time. Only companionship is the longest confession.
There are 33 days left in 2023, and in the coming year of 2024, many friends should have the demand of buying a car for the first time, changing it and increasing it. The picture shows that the car has summed up five suggestions for buying a car in 2024 based on the current development trend of the automobile industry and personal judgment.
First, new energy sources are preferred, and pure fuel vehicles are not recommended.
Many people may be reluctant to accept the fact that pure fuel vehicles are declining, but the fact is that fuel vehicles are accelerating to withdraw from the historical stage, at least in China. According to the monthly report of the Association, the market penetration rate of new energy vehicles has reached 38% in October 2023, and in January this year, the market penetration rate of new energy was still 25.7%. Compared with the same period of last year, the penetration rate of new energy market increased by 7.8% in October.
In terms of sales volume, of the 2.03 million new cars sold in October 2023, 770,000 were new energy vehicles, and the remaining 1.26 million were pure fuel vehicles. This comparison really shows that fuel vehicles are still difficult to hide the king’s demeanor, but if we compare the growth rate in the same period, it means that pure fuel vehicles are showing signs of decline-in November, the sales of new energy vehicles increased by 38% year-on-year, while the sales of pure fuel vehicles increased by -2.1%. In January, which was hit hardest by new energy, the sales of pure fuel vehicles increased by an astonishing -44.5% year-on-year.
It is not difficult to see that the pure fuel vehicle is going downhill as a whole, and there is no possibility of any return to life. In 2024, pure fuel vehicles, especially those below 200,000, will disappear faster. The newly listed consumer-grade vehicles are basically plug-in, extended-range or pure electric vehicles, and new pure fuel vehicles will be limited to joint venture brands and a few performance vehicles. For most consumers, accepting new energy sources may become the norm, because there are really not many pure fuel new cars to choose from.
In addition, it is still about wallets. 2024 is the penultimate year of new energy purchase tax exemption, and by 2026, new energy purchase tax will not be completely exempted. So, get on the bus when you get on, don’t hesitate, the later the fuel car changes, the greater the loss. You may not believe me, but the second-hand car association will give you lessons.
Second, program extension and multi-gear plug-in hybrid priority program extension
It is not yet clear who can laugh at the end between the extended program and the plug-in hybrid, but in the coming and foreseeable year of 2024, the extended program is undoubtedly the better solution.
Extended programs are often ridiculed as backward technology, but the answer given by the market is not the case. The sales volume of new energy terminals in October 2023 showed that the sales volume of plug-in hybrid vehicles in October was 159,000, and the sales volume of extended-range vehicles in the same period was 72,200, with a year-on-year increase of 211%. No matter what industry it is, "joining if you can’t beat it" is an eternal road. At first, you only wanted to extend your journey. Now Deep Blue, Wenjie, Zero Run, Lantu and even BYD have all joined the ranks of extending your journey. Only Tucki and Weilai are the independent new energy brands that firmly adhere to the pure circuit line, and the sales of the latter have reached the "not very good" range.
At the same time, the self-owned brands that adhere to the multi-gear plug-in hybrid technology route are also uncomfortable. How many of the 159,000 plug-in new cars are BYD’s single-gear plug-in, I think you have a good idea.
Undoubtedly, in the coming year of 2024, with the continuous decline in the price of raw materials for batteries, there will be more and more extended-range models for large batteries. A very simple question, when the extended pure electric mileage comes to about 350 kilometers, what are the advantages of plug-in hybrid models with 55 kilometers and 120 kilometers of pure electric battery life? Not to mention the multi-speed plug-in hybrid vehicle with complex technology and easy failure.
Third, the conditions allow priority to choose the smart driving version.
Nowadays, the development speed of new cars is really fast, and electrification is accompanied by intelligence. Of course, the intelligence here is not a disappearing gear handle and an increasingly large central control screen, but an increasingly advanced auxiliary driving function. When quite a few people are not used to giving the throttle to the adaptive cruise system, the tram has entered the stage of giving the steering wheel to the auxiliary driving system.
Then the two-day video of Smart World S7 and Ideal Unmanned parking service shows us to some extent the normal state of parking in the basements of first-and second-tier cities after two or three years-the basements of big shopping malls are full of cars with drivers who have no one to find their own parking spaces, and in most cases, they may be better and more courteous than human drivers.
Intelligent driving is not limited to unmanned parking service, but also point-to-point navigation assistance. At present, most car companies’ intelligent driving schemes are still in semi-closed road environment such as expressway/urban expressway, which is only the initial stage of pilot assistance. The higher level is the navigation assistance of complex urban roads, and the foreseeable ultimate goal is the point-to-point navigation assistance. At present, the intelligent driving technology of some car companies has actually reached the point-to-point level of navigation assistance, but the policies, regulations and road environmental conditions have not yet reached the practical level. In the future, with the improvement of regulations and urban infrastructure, point-to-point navigation assistance will no longer be a scene unique to science fiction films.
In the coming year of 2024, most trams with a price of more than 150,000 yuan should provide a smart driving version, which usually uses the suffix of MAX or I, and the price is usually about 20,000 yuan more expensive than the ordinary version. At the same time, there may be a new trend that all new cars have the redundancy of intelligent driving hardware. If you want to open the intelligent driving function in the future, you only need to purchase the service and push the intelligent driving function through OTA.
Therefore, considering the change cycle of 5-6 years, if you buy a tram next year, it is recommended to give priority to the intelligent driving version. If conditions do not permit, try to choose a model with intelligent driving hardware redundancy that can be upgraded through OTA, so that you can upgrade to the intelligent driving version at any time when future conditions permit. The intelligent driving era will not be too far away.
Fourth, independent brand new energy gives priority to big manufacturers and their sub-brands.
Needless to say, in recent years, new energy sources of independent brands have emerged in an endless stream, and many of them are short-lived. The latter are basically "new forces" without endorsement from big manufacturers. Other things aside, just by fighting the price war, the big manufacturers will persist longer than the new forces, and the after-sales and supply chain of the big manufacturers will be more complete, at least there will be no crisis in the car machine.
At the same time, the self-owned brand new energy sub-brands are actually doing very well, and the level of adjustment is inevitable, but at least the hardware is full, and more than 200,000 double wishbone air suspensions are arranged for you. The same price can be given priority.
Fifth, buy early and enjoy the discount for buying late.
This is applicable at any time, because the development of science and technology is a process of continuous innovation and progress, and everyone may be backstab. For example, when you are still immersed in the expectation and joy of waiting for your car to be transported to the delivery center, the APP highlights the push of the smart driving version of the same model.
At this time, you should learn to comfort yourself that "buy early and enjoy the discount when you buy late". In the new energy era, new cars come out faster than mobile phones. No matter when you buy a car, there are always better and more advanced models on the market, and the models that can afford and meet your needs are the most suitable. In short, the best scenery is always in the distance, and it is wonderful to learn to enjoy the present.
Playing badminton, as long as the ball falls in the opponent’s line or out of your line, you score. Therefore, let yourself catch the ball, hit it and stay out of bounds;
Let the opponent can’t catch, can’t fight or hit the line.
In any ball game, footwork is the foundation. Footwork can ensure that you appear where you want to appear in time. A large part of the reason for the "slowness" in badminton is that the footwork is not in place.
As long as the footwork is in place, at least you can catch the ball more easily.
▏ It’s more difficult for the opponent to miss the ball. But at least I guarantee that I can hit the ball and reach the opponent’s half without going out of bounds. Otherwise, there is no need for the other team to catch the ball. This involves a boundary problem. Boundaries are not only boundaries, but also bottom lines and sideline lines. You have to consider the net. Return it when serving.ConsiderService line.
At the same time, the boundary is not fixed, and the angle relationship between the hitting point and the net, that is, the relationship between the flying trajectory of the ball and the height of the net, also seriously affects the spatial scope of the boundary, such as the flat ball and the high ball, and the effect of hitting out is very different. It is not easy to elaborate, and the golfers will understand it according to this idea.
The level of playing badminton, in the amateur circle, an important indicator is the quality of returning the ball. The quality is not high, not only the opponent can’t be killed, but also the opponent can easily catch the ball and find the murder.
Four dimensions should be considered in returning the ball: height (height), distance (length), left and right (angle) and speed (speed). When the four factors combine with each other, they conjure up endless choices.
How to choose the hitting route and landing point needs to be decided according to the specific situation on the court.
For example, the opponent’s position, the opponent’s return habit, the opponent’s level and so on …
General experience: the baseline ball should be as high as possible and press the baseline; Midcourt ball, low, big angle or chasing, fast;
The ball in the frontcourt should fall rapidly just after crossing the net.
Playing badminton, absolute strength is not everything. In the same way, not making brute force does not mean that the ball is weak. The backcourt ball, backhand ball line is not deep enough, or the ball is weak, which is the problem of power.
I believe you have read many introductions about the issue of exerting force, which emphasizes one point.
Whip-body consistency force-refuse arm tension force.
▏ Whether the return line is sudden and unpredictable, whether the landing point is just right, and whether the fake action is deceptive … This is a typical skill! The key to skill is "wrist action at the moment of hitting the ball"!
The importance of flexible wrist, everyone has this awareness first, and the specific use, please understand in practice!
Apart from strength and skill, the difference between a wise man and a headstrong man in badminton lies in consciousness. In short, it is whether you can "play with your brain".
Finding the opponent’s gaps and flaws should be the core performance of badminton.
▏ The wonderful appreciation of playing badminton lies in taking more shots, and the contradiction between control and anti-control is vividly reflected.
Whoever can mobilize the other side can take the initiative.
The person who mobilizes the other side is getting easier and easier, and the person who is mobilized is exhausted, but he is full of energy and ambition but can’t make it.
Li Yuan: Through the difficulties in this circle, the god of luck finally stood on our side. Our team, the goal of the Asian Games is to win the championship.
Pan Zhenqi: I think everyone is the same. As long as we play for one minute, we have to fight for 60 seconds. We all fight for honor and country.
Zhang Ru: When the national flag is raised and the national anthem is played abroad, I feel a great sense of responsibility and mission. The more everyone reaches the critical moment and the difficult moment, no one shows great fear.
Zheng Wei: Of the 12 people who participated in the World Cup last year, eight of our players were not on the team, and only four of them really stayed on the team. These were very difficult times.
Coach Spool looks more like the coach of the new American Dream Team, and Cordao became the shopkeeper of cutting.
After Popovich withdrew from the men’s basketball team of dreams, Cole, the former assistant coach of the dream team, replaced the upper position. This is something that has been predicted for a long time, and there is not much controversy. After all, the coach of the dream team mainly depends on prestige and contribution.
However, according to the coach’s ability, it is estimated that Cole can only work as an assistant coach, and the real coach is Cole.
When Tarun Lu painted a tactical board for the members of the dream team, many people joked that the real coach was off, and Cole was overhead.
Now the Heat officially released a photo of Coach Spool in the Dream Team. On the surface, it congratulated Coach Spool on becoming the assistant coach of the Dream Team, but it seems a bit like guiding others to see that he is the real coach.
When the three coaches gathered in the training ground, Coach Spool stood in the middle position to explain the tactics to Tyrone Lu and Cole. Tyrone Lu was able to conduct business discussions and was more serious, and Cole was the one who obviously played soy sauce. He couldn’t understand the latest tactical ideas.
Therefore, the luxury coaching staff of this dream team, Cole is actually a shopkeeper of cutting and cutting, and the people who really work are Tyrone Lu and Coach Spool.
On May 21st, Beijing time, Arsenal lost away to Nottingham Forest, and Manchester City won the league championship three games ahead of schedule. At this point, Blue Moon has won the Premier League three times in a row. In the past six seasons, Manchester City won five Premier League titles, creating the Blue Moon Dynasty in the English arena. In addition, Manchester City won the 9th top English league title in team history and the 7th Premier League title in team history.
After winning the championship, Manchester City Club officially exposed the family photo of winning the championship and shared the joy with the fans.
He also made a number of post-match celebration videos and deeply expressed Guardiola, "Yes, you can always trust this man!"
Manchester City people also updated social media to celebrate the championship moment.
Gundogan: Champion! ! ! ! It’s incredible to win the Premier League championship for three consecutive cities and five times in six years. I’m proud to be the captain of this world-class team!
De Braune: Champion!
Walker: Premier League champion!
Rubendias: Well done, brothers!
Ak: Champion! I am proud that everyone involved has made amazing achievements!
Mahrez: There is a trophy won through hard work! Congratulations to everyone who fought for it.
FIBA officially announced the draw for the 2023 Men’s Basketball World Cup. The Australian men’s basketball team, which belongs to the Asian Basketball Federation, was placed in the first file, the old Iranian men’s basketball team was placed in the fifth file, the China men’s basketball team was placed in the sixth file, and the Japanese men’s basketball team, which has three NBA players and is one of the hosts of this tournament, was only placed in the seventh file, which is surprising. Thirty-two teams will be divided into eight groups. According to the principle of avoiding teams in the same continent, China men’s basketball team will have a chance to advance to the top 16 as long as it doesn’t draw in the fourth place.
According to a number of domestic media reports, the pterosaur team in the Bay Area, which recruited a number of well-known CBA players last season, has officially sent an invitation to Li Chunjiang, who has been banned by chinese basketball association for five years, hoping that it can replace Gore and lead the team in the East Asian Super League next season.
However, it is still possible for Li Chunjiang, a wealthy Shanghai coach, to retain his coaching. After all, he has not been completely banned from basketball activities by chinese basketball association, and his salary remains unchanged. It may also be a good choice to be promoted to become the vice president of the team or the head coach of the echelon and help the club build a youth training system again. Li Nan has the same possibility. As for the notorious Shi Linjie, it is better to keep him away from the basketball circle.
When it comes to Shi Linjie, I have to mention the West Thermal River. At the beginning, the West Thermal River, which beat up Shi Linjie in the restaurant, will expire after the end of this season. Whether to officially retire and become a full-time coach needs to be discussed with the club. However, according to Carter, a well-known basketball media person, although the dividend of CBA League exceeded 20.8 million this season, Nanjing Tongxi Club still lost as much as 15.73 million yuan. Now that foreign aid Achur has left the team and returned to play in Australia NBL, the top salary contract of West Thermal Power River has expired, and all the home and away games will be opened in the regular season next season. Perhaps Nanjing Tongxi can turn losses into profits in the financial report, but it is a pity that with the lack of foreign aid of 4 quarters and 5 people and Achur’s powerful insider, Lin Wei and Wang Lanying will encounter a new show wall again. Perhaps playoff tickets are still out of reach for Nanjing Tongxi.
With the Liaoning men’s basketball team beating Shougang in Beijing away from home, three seats have been decided in the semi-finals of the playoffs, and Zhejiang Guangsha needs to return to the home of Guangdong Hongyuan to fight with the 11-time champion to advance to the top four. Since Ren Junfei scratched Hu Jinqiu’s shoulder with his nails in the last match between the two sides, Guangdong Hongyuan’s football style was once again condemned by fans all over the country. In order to win the game, I don’t hesitate to dig out my crotch, pad my feet, or even use my claws. Is this what the fans want to see in China basketball? No wonder Fan Ziming said something after the war in Beijing and Liaoning that the Liaoning men’s basketball team won the game aboveboard, so the question is, which strong team in CBA won the game aboveboard? Has chinese basketball association signed the long-forgotten referee’s report?
According to Beijing media reports, Guo Ailun was in a bad state in the second match with Beijing Shougang. After the game, he did not return to Liaoning with the team, but stayed in Beijing to treat his finger injury. If Liaoning men’s basketball team wants to go further in the next playoffs, the two main players, Guo Ailun and Han Dejun, must overcome their injuries and find their state as soon as possible.
After the end of this season’s journey, Beijing Shougang will gather again after a month’s holiday. There are many things that the team needs to do during the offseason this summer. Is Leiden, who changed the team’s offensive style after taking over, retained? Are all the three foreign AIDS with poor performance cleaned? Ten players including Fang Shuo, Raymond, Fan Ziming and Tian Yuxiang have expired their contracts, which players should go and which players should stay? Fang Shuo has met the standards of the contract for veteran transfer, and whether the vacant top salary quota is used to introduce them.
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